This week’s blog is an excerpt from the weekly workshop journal of Nicole Dale, Music Director for ART START. She had a really beautiful experience and I am moved to share it with all of you. Names have been changed out of respect for the students.
Kenari has been at the shelter for quite a while now - about a year or so. He has 2 brothers and they all come to the ART START workshops frequently. It’s always been hard for the brothers to be together in the same room. Often their behavior is too disruptive when together, so we have to split them up into different rooms, or ask one of them to not participate for that evening only. We always hated doing this, and tried often to find ways to keep all of them involved. Besides issues with his brothers, Kenari was very difficult in general, especially around the summertime. There were a lot of boys attending the workshop, and their unique chemistry (or lack thereof) led to a lot of violent outbursts. For the safety of all the children in the workshop, we had to ask some of the boys not to attend the workshops anymore. Kenari was one of these boys. It was heartbreaking to have to tell him he could not attend. He LOVED the drum circles and really got into it. You could tell it was a release for him to be allowed to physically hit something that made such a satisfyingly loud noise. But in addition to this, he also has a talent for making beats and was able to focus on it for a long time, unlike other activities where he could never gain focus. Kenari was upset about being kicked out of the drum circle and returned every week to ask me if he could join up. Again and again, I had to tell him no.
A couple of months passed and the dynamic of group started to change. Several children had left the shelter and new ones had arrived. The collective behavior of the group was calmer and the workshops were able to flourish again, safely. We hadn’t seen Kenari for a while when he started to show up again, asking if he could join in. I told him that I was ready to give him another chance, but only one. He could never display any violent behavior again. He said he understood and we let him participate on a trial basis.
Somehow things had changed for him. He still didn’t necessarily get along with his brothers and understandably so when you have to spend so much time together in a small living quarters. But now, Kenari was very focused on the drums and listened to all the instructions we gave him. He didn’t act out toward the other children; instead he offered to help them learn the beats that we were playing. He realized he had a real talent for it that he could share! He was so sweet and nurturing with these children. We didn’t have to worry about him participating anymore, in fact we looked forward to seeing him each week.
Just last week, we had a new ART START volunteer join the workshop and we put him in charge of drumming. He gave Kenari a leadership role in the drum circle, allowing him to create the beats that the group played, and letting him lead the group jam session. It was amazing to see Kenari embrace this role. He was so happy and satisfied with his playing. He has really grown in the time we’ve worked with him, and although I don’t know what other experiences are happening in his life, I know that he has at least one place where he can shine and feel satisfied in his abilities.
At the point when things were so out of control with Kenari, I never thought they would end this way, but that is one of the most beautiful things about working with ART START children. They never cease to surprise me and remind me that they are capable of learning absolutely anything. They just need to be given chances to grow in a nurturing way.



The Art Start Family never ceases to inspire and move me to be a better person. This month, one of our volunteer artists is blowing my mind. I hope you’ll join me on October 1st when he performs a live show in Gramercy Park, featuring the Art Start teens, all to benefit Art Start.

